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Sat, 15 Feb 2014 16:00:00 GMT

Helping your friend’s love story

Helping your friends love story can be a tricky situation, it can either work well or back fire. It is very important to discuss personal matters in private. Don't go anywhere public really, or someone you know could spread all kinds of rumours.


Helping your friend’s love story

 In order to be able to help a friend with a problem, we need to first understand what the problem is. So we need to listen first, without interrupting. If we have any questions afterwards, then it's okay to ask.

Make sure you’re not doing this just to get the story. Do it because you want to help. After figuring out ways to relate to your friend's experience, let them know things that you have done in the past that have helped you out.

Recommend the best way you think they should deal with their problem. But remember everyone is different, so you can't guarantee anything.

Give your friend advice but make sure that you don't guarantee anything. If they don't agree with you, that's okay. Trying to force them is only going to cause a fight.

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